Here are three mistakes that people do when they are trying to win their ex lover back:

Begging and pleading for another chance is not the way to get an ex back..And everything else that makes u look pathetic..frustrated and miserable...The more u beg to get an ex partner back...the less likely it is to ever happen...Desperate behavior is more likely to repel ur ex rather than attract him or her....Not chasing after ur ex gives u a better chance to win them back......because u are not doing anything negative to win them back.......

Acting depressed and trying to make ur ex feel guilty about leaving you....so that he or she will feel bad for u and come back... is another common mistake... Doing things to get her or his attention by pretending to be someone u are not is simply bad strategy... Also..don't call ur ex...or go to their house.. and cry and threaten suicide...This never works...Never forget that stalking is illegal....

Don't tend to rekindle things with ur ex too soon... If u only broke up a short time ago...leave a substantial time between breaking up and trying to get back together with ur ex....You need to realize that most people need space right after a break up.... Give him or her a little time to miss you... If u had a decent relationship chances are that ur ex will think about u....There is nothing u can do to instantly bring back ur ex...so be patient.... Sometimes it could be weeks or months before u get ur ex back.... but if u really like him or her.... it is worth the wait.........

           my friend ask me how to get his Ex back...........Shit...how can i know that??4 words for him: 顶你个肺!!!!!(性格之人所讲D野果然系有性格)